The Woman You Should Marry

You should marry the woman who:

- has her own mind but you both agree on fundamentals like how to treat each other, long-term goals, family plans, how to raise children, spiritual beliefs
- wears your T-shirt to bed because she misses you when you are away
- smiles when she wakes up next to you
- knows your favourite things and makes an effort to give them/make them for you
- laughs at your jokes
- is physically attractive to you
- you can talk with her about any subject, usually at length. Note: When you like talking with her for a long time, this is a good sign!
- tells you she loves you often and you know she means it
- has her own goals and desires from life and recognizes she can achieve them with you as a partner and as a supporter
- inspires you to be the best man you can be
- you want to give her everything and fulfill her dreams the best that you can
- is gentle with you and others
- is a giver, not a taker
- respects you
- believes in you and your abilities
- understands that you need some time 1. alone, 2. with your friends, 3. to be a Dad to your kids, 4.to strive for your own goals with her help and support

After many years of searching, I have found such a woman. Cheryl and I were married 2 years ago after 3 years as a couple and years of friendship before that. I thank God every day for my blessings of Cheryl and our children.